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Zum Thema „Frauenblogs“ oder Plattformen nur fuer Frauen -gibts das eigentlich auch nur fuer Maenner?- bin ich auf folgenden erleuchtenden Text gestossen:

It is not a matter of controversy in Islam that mingling between men and women is prohibited or not. Rather it is a distinguishing feature of Islamic culture that men and women should remain separate and perform their duties in a most obliging manner.
People who have insight know very well that mingling of men with women is the root cause of many evils that can arise afterwards. The family ties, the relations between husband and wife, the children and other matters can all easily be disturbed as a result of mingling of men with women.

It is natural that men and women are attracted to each other. Islam has provided the legal way for both men and women to marry each other and maintain a family by raising their children. Islam has also imposed some rights on each other in respect of husband, wife and children so that all of them should care about the others and hold strong ties which consist of love, faith and affiliation. But this very purpose is disturbed when the mingling between men and women takes place freely, and the most to suffer as a consequence are the women and children, and they feel deserted. Therefore, it is in the interest of women that they should care about the occasions when such thing could arise.

The same prohibition implies that men should also restrain themselves because it is also in their interest to refrain from such mingling which can disturb them mentally and physically later on. We should bear in mind’that we are to abide by the commandments of Islam which holds all that is good for us.

Das sagte ein Herr Abdul Malik Mujahid aus Darussalam.

So ist das also. Das unkontrollierte Gemingel zwischen Maennern und Frauen ist „evil“, stoert die Herren „mentally“ und schliesslich sogar „physically“.
Nach dieser Argumentation sehe ich die Notwendigkeit von Maenner- und Frauenblogs strikt getrennt natuerlich ein.

ABER: wenn ich mir vorstelle, hier in diesem Ponyblog waeren nur Frauen -wobei die Frauen, die hier sind, natuerlich ganz ausserordentlich extrem gute Frauen sind- wuerde mir ganz arg was fehlen.
Ich fuer meinen Teil finde das Mingeln unterhaltsam, inspirierend und aeusserst lehrreich und ich hoffe, dass die Herren, die sich hier so bewusstseinserweiternd aeussern, keinen mentalen oder physischen Schaden nehmen, ich waere absolut untroestlich, wenn Sie zukuenftig lieber unter sich waeren in Maennercommunities oder so.
Womit ich nicht diverse Stammtische, Motorradtreffs, Skatrunden, Saufabende social events meine, denen Sie sich ungemingelt hingeben duerfen.

Ich wollte das nur mal erwaehnt haben…